Ghosting is an epidemic, & it’s occurring an increasing number of. Former Bachelorette Rachel Lindsay revealed her ghosting trauma that helped encourage her new present.
Ghosting is going on an increasing number of lately, and Rachel Lindsay and Travis Mills are attempting to place an finish to the development with their new MTV present Ghosted. The pair met whereas recording Travis’s podcast, and started to change ghosting tales of their very own. “I’m telling my story, he’s telling his story and we’re like, ‘Oh, we’re not alone. That is, this can be a factor, this is a matter. We have to deal with this.’ And right here we’re tackling it!” the previous Bachelorette dished on the HollywoodLife podcast. The present finds individuals who have been ghosted in romantic relationships, friendships and even by relations, and brings the “haunted” face-to-face with their “ghost.”
“It’s simply changing into acceptable, and it’s an issue,” Rachel defined. The newlywed recalled a surprising ghosting story of her personal, that occurred 10 years in the past earlier than she went to regulation faculty. “I used to be truly at church of all locations on New 12 months’s Eve, I’ll always remember this, I’m speaking to the good friend who truly launched me to this man and he’s like, ‘Man, everybody has a baby.’ And I stated, ‘No, so-and-so doesn’t,’ and I’m speaking about my boyfriend and he appears to be like at me with probably the most dumbfounded look…” Rachel quickly came upon that the person she had been courting for nearly a 12 months had a 2-month previous little one with one other lady.
“I ended up taking him again as a result of there was a time the place we did have a break, and I did my calculations and I used to be like, ‘So long as you don’t have a relationship with the kid’s mom, then we’re okay.’” Rachel and the unnamed man dated one other 12 months till she obtained a name from her S.O.’s child mom, who needed to know the standing of their relationship. “She was like ‘Properly, we’re collectively, too,’” Rachel admitted. “By some means, we talked it out and I used to be again in with him. However, a pair months handed by and I referred to as him sooner or later and the telephone says, ‘The quantity you’ve reached is not in service.’”
Rachel revealed she referred to as “many times and once more” and obtained the identical message. “I noticed he had modified his telephone quantity on me, and didn’t inform me. He simply utterly disappeared and I had no approach of contacting him,” she stated. “I used to be so devastated and embarrassed.”
She continued, “However then I simply picked myself up and like form of brushed my emotions underneath the rug and stored it transferring. However after I look again, I by no means in these two years had a severe relationship. I’d date, however I couldn’t absolutely commit as a result of I couldn’t belief.” Fortunately, Rachel was chosen as a contestant for The Bachelor a short while after and, the remaining is Bachelor Nation historical past!
Make sure to hearken to the complete HollywoodLife podcast and watch Ghosted on Tuesdays at 9 PM ET on MTV!